Hey guys! So, I put that Sarahah thing on my Instagram link, and someone asked me to post about how to get over breakups, and the exe's in general. So I thought that would be a perfect blog post to start out this lovely week.
DISCLAIMER: I am sixteen years old, therefore I haven't had many serious relationships. This is my advice the best I can.
Also todays photo's are from Haillie Emma Photography, click on her name and check her beautiful work out. She has such talent and I highly recommend her.
Okay, now lets get tp the blog post!
HAPPINESS IS REVENGE.
Lets say you got dumped, or broken up with, or your crush just wants nothing to do with you. And you are having such a hard time. Well first of all, I feel you. We have all been there. If not we will be. Well, eat your ice cream and cry quickly because that isn't going to help you at all. Yes it probably did make you feel better but it didn't get you anywhere. That is the hard, hard truth. I want you to get out there, make friends, reunite with old ones, or hang out with your current friends. Don't jump into anything either. Just go out with friends and start small, such as group dates, double date. Or just texting some guy friends. Being happy and moved on shows how powerful you are to yourself, the world, and this exe person.
Again, these are tips from me. Not all of these work for people but they do work for me. Once you break up/get denied. You need space. You need to delete them off social media for a few days and not text them. Even if you're still friends, you need time to yourself for the first few days. If you want to keep talking to them, that is fine. It's okay to not have bad blood. But when you first break it off, you need a few days to yourself. That is the healthiest way, in my opinion.
YOU JUST ONE HEART BREAK CLOSER TO HAPPILY EVER AFTER.- Wizards of Waverly Place
Yes, I just quoted one of my favorite Disney channel shows. Because it is 101% true. Maybe you were denied, dumped, or maybe you had to break it off. And guess what? You are one step closer to finding that special someone. And yes, believe it or not there IS someone out there for you!!! And everyday you are just closer to finding them. So, don't spend too much time being sad over a person you lost. Because there is someone even better out there for you. So go out there, live life, and wait patiently.
Thanks for reading guys, I hope this helped the person that commented on my link. Love you all so much, have an amazing week!